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As the leaves fall from the trees and the crisp autumn air fills the campus, many young students find themselves caught up in the whirlwind of college romance. But for all the excitement and butterflies that come with a new relationship, there is a harsh reality that often sets in: relationships on campus just don't seem to work.

One of the main reasons for this is the sheer amount of stress and pressure that college students are under. With demanding classes, extracurricular activities, and the ever-present pressure to succeed, it can be difficult for students to find the time and energy to devote to a relationship. As a result, many relationships end up falling by the wayside, leaving both partners feeling hurt and frustrated.

Another reason why relationships on campus often fail is the fact that students are constantly surrounded by a sea of potential partners. With so many attractive, intelligent, and interesting people all around, it can be tempting for students to explore their options and pursue new experiences. This can lead to infidelity and a lack of commitment, which are major factors in the downfall of many college relationships.

READ ALSO : Confession : My roommate from Hell

Additionally, the transient nature of college life can also take a toll on relationships. With students moving in and out of dorms and apartments, and graduating and moving on to new cities and jobs, it can be difficult to maintain a sense of stability and continuity in a relationship. This can lead to feelings of isolation and disconnection, which can ultimately push partners apart.

Campus relationships can be challenging due to the transitional nature of college life. Typically, the majority of the students are learning and growing, while trying to figure out who they are and what they want. This can make it hard to fully commit to a relationship, as they may feel like they need to explore and discover themselves before they can truly be in a successful partnership. This lack of commitment and uncertainty can lead to conflicts and misunderstandings, which can ultimately cause a relationship to break down.

Additionally, the pursuit of relationships with older and wealthier partners by some college students, , particularly women, can create power imbalances and lead to feelings of resentment and inadequacy. The age difference can also cause conflicting priorities and expectations, ultimately leading to the breakdown of the relationship. Overall, the unique challenges of college life can make it difficult for campus relationships to thrive.

All of these factors combine to create a perfect storm of challenges for college relationships. And while it may be tempting to blame yourself or your partner for the failure of a relationship, the truth is that the deck is often stacked against college couples. So, the next time you find yourself caught up in the excitement of a new romance on campus, remember that it's not always easy to make it work, and that it's okay to let go and move on.

READ ALSO : List of TOP 10 Campus business ideas you can start with less than 5k




Not the real picture - for attention!

In 2015, there was a young student named Emily, a BCOM student at Egerton University. Emily was struggling to make ends meet - food, printing etc

She shared a 10x10 wooden room in a small slum called Njokerio, just outside the university. Emily had taken out loans ( HELB ) to pay for her education. Even with a part-time job in one of the shops in Campus, she found it difficult to afford all of her expenses.
One day, Emily's roommate suggested that she try to save money by cooking her own meals instead of eating out all the time. At first, Emily was skeptical. She had never been much of a cook and didn't think she had the time or the skills to whip up delicious meals on a budget.
But with a little practice and some help from her roommate, Emily soon discovered that she could save a lot of money by cooking for herself. She started by buying ingredients in bulk and making simple dishes like Mandazi, Chapati, Doughnuts , chips, githeri etc. As she became more confident in the kitchen, she began to experiment with more complex recipes and even started bringing her homemade lunches to campus.
Emily's cooking skills quickly became well-known among her classmates, and before long, she was receiving requests to make extra meals for them. Seeing an opportunity to earn some extra money, Emily started selling her homemade lunches to her fellow students. This additional income helped her to make ends meet and even allowed her to save up for some of the things she had been missing out on, like going out with friends or buying new textbooks.
Not only did Emily save a lot of money by cooking for herself and selling her meals to her classmates, but she also found that she was eating healthier and feeling better overall. And as a bonus, she even made some new friends by sharing her meals with her classmates.
In the end, Emily learned that with a little creativity and hard work, it was possible to survive and thrive even in a small slum like Njokerio. Emily graduated from Egerton University and stepped into the real world, .... she held tight to the valuable lesson she had learned. Now, she runs a thriving three-star hotel in Nakuru, always remembering the wisdom of her past.

The Roommate from Hell : Egerton University

When I was a student at Egerton University - Njoro Campus, I had the misfortune of being assigned to share a room with my course mate. At first, I was excited at the prospect of having a roommate, but that excitement quickly turned to frustration and annoyance. 

My roommate, let's call him Omondi, was a complex person. On the one hand, he was a talented and intelligent dude who always performed well in his Engineering exams. He was also a friendly and outgoing person who was popular among our course mates. On the other hand, he was a messy and inconsiderate person who made my life miserable. 

Omondi was notorious for bringing an endless stream of girls back to our room and satisfying his carnal desires with them, making loud noises and moaning openly. He was a total slob, always leaving a trail of dirty clothes and half-eaten food in his wake as he carelessly tossed his belongings all over room. Sometimes, he would also eat my food, inabidi nimeiname, ....... wear my clothes without permission, and steal my coins. His behavior was incredibly disruptive and made it impossible for me to study or sleep. Despite his good qualities, I found it difficult to get along with him because of his bad habits and disrespectful behavior.

One night, I had had enough. I was trying to study for an important exam, but Omondi and his girl were making so much noise that I couldn't concentrate. I asked them politely to be quiet, but they just ignored me and kept going. I tried to ignore them and focus on my studies, but it was impossible. Finally, I snapped and shouted at them to shut up. They were taken aback by my outburst, but they finally stopped.

From then on, things only got worse between us. Omondi started to resent me for standing up to him, and he would often do things to spite me, like turn off the lights when I was studying or take my food from the fridge without asking. I tried to talk to him and resolve our issues, but he refused to listen.

Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore. I complained to the university administration, and they agreed to move me to a different room. I was relieved to be away from Omondi and got some peace and managed to focus on my studies.

Dear Friend, If you're living with a roommate from the depths of hell, it's time to take a stand and set some boundaries. Learn to assert yourself and protect your own well-being. Don't let a difficult roommate bring you down.

Some roommates are straight from hell.

READ ALSO : List of TOP 10 Campus business ideas you can start with less than 5k


Here is a list of 10 business ideas comrades can start with less than KES 5,000 at your free time with minimal extra skills. Leverage on social media to reach more clients.

1. Selling laptop and phone stickers. You can source them at luthuli or download or design custom ones and print on vinyl paper.


Sample Laptop sticker



2. Polish people's jewelry and restore white shoes to their original color. This is done with special polishes and detergents for those specific purposes.


Restoring white shoes

3. Car headlight restoration and tinting. This is cleaning stained headlights and making them brand new. Window tinting comes as a bonus.



4. Selling cool rolling papers. It is very legal to sell rolling papers. So if you know friends who puff puff and plugs you can sell them your products.


Sample Tobacco rolling papers


5. Sell hand made jewelry. Guys with artistic ideas can make earrings, bracelets waist beads etc and make some extra cash.

Sample hand jewelry



6. Selling custom water bottles. You can source unique water bottles and even customize them for each customer.

Sample custom water bottles


7. Sell custom shoe laces and buttons. People are willing to get a new set of buttons for their shirts as long as it makes them look cooler.

Sample custom shoe laces

8. Sell photos online. If your phone has a cool camera or can get a better one, this is for you. Best selling photos show nature, love, happiness, sunsets etc. Use sites like shutterstock.com

9. Do simple online jobs like data entry, logo design, social media management etc. You can try sites like freelancer.com

10. Be a broker. Be that resourceful person who can source things for people when they need them at a small fee. Cars, laptops, tvs, second hand products, etc.

Lastly, no business is automatic. It will require some commitment, service delivery, trustworthiness and creativity. Don't forget to SAVE for growth. All the best.😊😉
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A large of students graduate every year but keeping in view the no of graduates in different fields compare to the no of jobs offered every year, there are much less jobs available and that’s why unemployment increases day by day. Every one of us who completes his/her degree start running after the job. His/her prime purpose each day is to find a job, no matter how much the pay is or whatever hard it is but a

JOB.

But keeping in view the no of jobs and opportunities available, there are not much positions available and still running after the job, many of us remain unemployed and due to which demotivation, frustration, anxiety and hopelessness increases.

Especially young graduates have no motivation nowadays.

You know that there is one major problem with the Social Animal called Mr. Human. The problem is “IMPATIENCE”.

Being human, I have suffered of this problem and I have wasted a lot of time but at same time I have learnt a lot. Before my job in Dec-2016, I have almost 18 months of being unemployed graduate. I like programming and I have tried every programming language and now today I know the basics of almost every programming language but I am jack of all and master of none because of this  habit. I have not earned much but have learnt a lot. I have made mistakes but today I have learnt a lot from those mistakes and now today I want to share what I have learnt to help you avoid those mistakes and to give you a concise and clear way to earn while still unemployed. One thing I want to make clear that I am not sharing anything like QUICK RICH formula but what I am sharing, will require a lot of hardwork, patience, focus, dedication and commitment.



Many of us graduate and then their whole purpose of life becomes finding a job. Just they read their course again and again and prepare for tests and interviews and not doing anything other than this. I am not saying that don’t prepare for tests, do prepare, work hard to find a job in a good organization but being jobless, open your mind and start learning about other opportunities around you because It will help you in both your personal development and also in financial side.

You know GOD has given you the gift of a good education from a good institution and you should use this great gift.

A lot of people in this world, less educated than you, having much less access to opportunities as compare to you, but are earning tons of money using the online opportunities available.

YOU CAN EARN TOO!!!!!

What you have to do, Just START!!!!!!

Now you will think, what to start, where to start, how to start?

And I am going to tell you in this article “what, where and how”.

1- BLOGGING:

Blogging is a great place to start for anyone who like writing about anything. You are graduated in any field of education and you can write blog about any subject of your field. If you are engineer, you write blog about different technologies and problems occurring and how to solve it. Enough Opportunities are available but you have just to start. Even if you are a student, you can also write about how to solve a specific problem? You can learn about blogging using YouTube videos and also different articles on GOOGLE. Just type “How to learn blogging” and “How to earn money using blogging” and you will find tons of articles and videos about it.

2-YouTubing

YouTube is second most searched Search Engine after Google. If you have a passion towards technology, programming, software, education, music and any other passion, and you can talk about it, you can teach about it, you can make videos about it, then YouTube is the great and free place for you. You can make a channel on YouTube and make videos about anything and upload it and view will come, ads will appear and you will earn. But keep in mind this great advice that first learn then earn. YouTube is the great place to show your skills. A large no of people having much less education then you are earning thousands of bucks per month and living a happy life. YouTube is great place in a way that It helps you develop your presentation skills, designing skills, video recording and editing skills and personal development skills. I know a guy who is just middle class and earning thousands of bucks with his “” channel. This is just one example. Just you have to choose a niche and start making videos. You can learn about YouTube Earning Career using different articles and YouTube videos. A large no of tutorials are available.

3 — FREELANCING

Freelancing is great career for anyone who has knowledge about anything especially for programmers, developers, designers, video editors, article writers. There is a large no of great freelancing platforms that includes Freelancer, Upwork, Fiverr, PeoplePerHour and many more.

Freelancing is a great place because it has much more opportunities available for people from different fields.

You can learn about freelancing using Google and YouTube.

All the above 3 methods shared above are great in every aspect for anyone either employed or unemployed. But all of these requires learning it. Believe me learning is not hard. If you can learn tons of subjects (most of those you don’t like) for 16 years then why not try 4–6 months more with more hardwork, commitment and focus to change your life. First you should learn any skills for 4–6 months minimum and then apply it to earn using it and at the same time keep learning it. Because according to 70–20–10 law, 70 percent of learning occurs while practically applying the skill.

My advice to you is that either you are a student, a graduated unemployed, graduating soon or an employed early level professional, that try any of these method to start online earning. Because it will help you develop your skills and will expand your mind and will help in you in your future job.

Also My advice to anyone, who has decided to learn online earning, is that first learn any skills or about any niche for 4–6 months and then after learning it, start earning through it. Apply the skill or method you have learnt and then keep learning and earning at the same time. Don’t be impatient. Don’t hurry the process. To earn using these methods it will take time up to 1 year or more and then you will enjoy the life.

If anyone can do it then you can do it. If people are making money using these methods, you can earn too. If you can work hard for 16 years to get a piece of paper (degree) then why not work for 1 year more to learn those skills and methods.

My dear unemployed graduates, GOD has blessed you with a great ability but you need to start. So start now. I am saying that don’t search for jobs but the key purpose of this piece of text is that while searching for jobs, also find ways to earn money. Because there is no guarantee in today’s world of extreme unemployment that when you will find a job but if open your mind, expand your thinking, think big then enormous opportunities are in front of you. Just think big. Just expand you mind. Just open your eyes to see those opportunities.

My dear unemployed graduates, GOD has given us 24 hours in a day and this is much much enough time for everyone to do anything but it depends on us how we use it. Now from today, this moment, promise yourself that out of those 24 hours, for only 4 hours, I will learn about online earning and a skill that will help me to earn online. Do whatever you do in those 20 hours, apply for jobs, play, sleep, enjoy with friends but 4 hours only for this task. Then in a short time you will observe how your life changes. How your circumstances changes.

Now Decision is in your handACTION is in your hand. You are capable of much more. Just don’t content yourself by only 16 years of education. Do what you can do today to make your life better.

Start Today because Today is GIFT and Tomorrow is a Mystery.

Because GOD help those who help themselves. You cannot control unemployment but you have control over yourself and my dear this is the time to take control of your time because those who wastes time, then time wastes them.



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University Of Nairobi - School of Business

Prof. Mwaluma from the University of Nairobi has this to say to college and university students:

Life requires more than the ability to understand a concept, memorise it and reproduce it in an exam. School rewards people for their memory. Life rewards people for their imagination. School rewards caution, life rewards daring. 

Academic excellence is overrated! I said it. Being top of your class does not necessarily guarantee that you will be at the top of life. You could graduate as the best student in Finance but it doesn't mean you will make more money than everybody else. The best graduating Law student does not necessarily become the best lawyer.

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The fact is life requires more than the ability to understand a concept, memorise it and reproduce it in an exam. School rewards people for their memory. Life rewards people for their imagination. School rewards caution, life rewards daring. School hails those who live by the rules. Life exalts those who break the rules and set new ones.



So do I mean people shouldn't study hard in school? Oh, no, you should. But don't sacrifice every other thing on the altar of First Class. Don't limit yourself to the classroom. Do something practical. Take a leadership position. Start a business and fail. That's a better Entrepreneurship 101.Join or start a club. Contest an election and lose. It will teach you something Political Science 101 will not teach you. Attend a seminar. Read books outside the scope of your course. Go on missions and win a soul for eternal rewards.

Comrades: Do something you believe in! Think less of becoming an excellent student but think more of becoming an excellent person. Make the world your classroom.

Step forward try politics, try business, try an extra thing great person.

I wish you all the best in your academics.

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Hang in there, we hope for better days.
After graduating in Sep 2019 and landing an internship immediately things were going very well. In Jan 2020 everything seemed promising, it was the year I was going to land that dream job. Opportunities were in plenty Total, Schneider, EABL, Baker Hughes all had graduate programs and not forgetting other entry level engineering jobs and internships. 

I landed two interviews in the first week of January. One was at Kapa Oil for an internship position. This is the first Mhindi company I have ever come across. The interview was great.The offer was a 6-month internship, no pay, had to pay for my own lunch in the vegan canteen, I took it. After two days there, I got a real job offer in a bakery till Rona hit and I lost the job after 6 months, had to start tarmacking again. This is where my nightmare started.

On 29th June, UoN Career Services posted a job advert and it was forwarded on WhatsApp. Metal Crowns Ltd wanted Mechanical and Engineering graduates and I knew this is it. I mean UoN career services gotta be legit.

This was the job description.



The job looked good on paper, it's operation of automatic machines.

I didn't waste any time so I sent my CV to UoN career services and they confirmed. All I had to do now is wait.

On 30th June, that was the last day on my old job. I got a call from the company's HR, a very nice and calm man, he invited me for an interview. I was lucky I mean I haven't even spent time tarmacking. I was very excited.

The following week, I went for the interview. They gave me an aptitude test, easy basic Engineering maths and some stuff about compressed air and how to read a vernier caliper... I did well and at the end they informed they will give me the job but I had to show them my previous job's contract. This was a big red flag but I told them they have to match the terms of my previous contract and they said okay. 

After about two weeks a lady calls and said she was from a company called People Link a consultancy company that the HR gave them my number I am supposed to go with my certificates at Corner Hse in town and sign some papers. I was confused because in the interview they didn't mention anything about sub-contracting me. I went anyway to see what they were offering and see if they matched what we discussed during the interview. When I got they gave me some papers to sign and fill my details.

What these consultancy companies do is that you register with them, pay some registration fee. They have some clients i.e. companies that hire them to provide labour. When an opportunity comes up they get you an interview and if you get a job you pay them a % of your first full monthly salary. In this situation, I hadn't even heard of PeopleLink and wasn't even their registered member. The company didn't want to hire me directly so they used them because it's easier to get rid of subcontracted workers to hire me. 

First I had to fill a registration form and then before I had finished gave me a contract agreement to sign that I would give up my first full month salary. I asked why they showed me the service charge sheet which I felt it was robbery since they played no part in getting me the job.

After all that, I signed the agreement and I started asking about the terms of the job.

First it was the working hours, the job was a shift job 12 hours day shift and 13 hours nightshift. During shift changes (switching working from night to day), you have to work 18 fucking hrs
The second thing was the salary, they said I can't get what we agreed with HR, I have to settle with 30k and in this 30k they deduct lunch and supper they offer in the company( which is terrible tbh). For me, money wasn't the biggest of priorities so I didn't complain too much.

Another thing was lateness, I was to join the night shift and I was supposed to report at 6pm. If anything happened and I was late for 30 minutes I have to go back home and no pay for that day. They didn't offer any transport or any additional allowances. For those who know the Likoni Rd-Lunga-Lunga Rd route, the only available matatus are the old Outreach Sacco (Idk how those things still work) in Muthurwa. So, if you're coming from the other side of town, you have to walk to catch a matatu at Muthurwa every single day to and from. This means if you live a lil bit far you have to add 4 hours of commute to your working hours. This means the job is taking between 17-19 hours of your day.

After getting all this information I still took the job, I was to start on the night of August 5th. The reporting time was 6pm so I left home at 4pm and arrived a few minutes to 6pm. They did the security checks and linked me to the team leader of the shift.

The guy gave me an overall and told me "I hope huogopi kazi". No orientations, no introductions the guy took me to the machines.. They produce metal crowns/glass bottle tops for soft drinks and beer. He gave me some other guy who showing me how the job is done. The guy demonstrated for 5 minutes. 

The job was first forming the cartons in to a box, then fitting a polythene bag on the box, fill up the box with the metal crowns, shake the box for the crowns to settle, you seal the box, label the box, put it in a pallet, stack up the pallet up to 5 stacks, drag the pallet to the storage, come back with another pallet and start the same cycle. The first 30 mins I was already sweating but I thought probably after some time I was informed I had to keep doing it till my shift was over. By 9pm I was so exhausted.

At 10pm, a "supper" break came to my rescue, it was for 10minutes but I got time to talk to the other guys. I asked them how they manage to do that job every day. Most of them had joined like three weeks earlier and they don't have an option they have to do it for their families. The "supper" was 2chapos na ndengu, very shitty food, which was tobe deducted from your salary.

As I was talking to the guys, they told me that day was a slow day. There's a day they worked 18 fucking hours a night. You clock in at 6pm & leave next day at 12noon. That's madness! That supper break was the only break, for the rest of the night you're expected to work till your shift ends. By midnight, my legs and hands were shaking, my back couldn't hold anymore but I had to keep going. The speed of the machine was crazy.

So I started tracking how much working I was doing just to distract myself. One box of the metal crowns was 10,000 pieces and by midnight I had done 60 cartons. That's 600, 000 crowns. The price of metal crowns i.e wholesale is 1.08KSh-4.33KSh (Source: Alibaba) In kenya shillings that's 5 bob per piece, which means in 7 hours the cost of all of that was fucking 2.6m. By the end of the night I did 1.2m pieces which translates to almost 6 million Kenyan shillings. The guy next to me did 2.6 million pieces which is roughly 11m Ksh

With 4 lines of Fabrication you can only imagine the amount of money those guys are making. These "small" companies in Industrial Area make lots of money but the working conditions there are horrible. They don't care at all about their workers. I don't understand how someone is expected to work 14 hours a night with one 10 min break for 6 days a week and when the demand is too high the off-day is deferred to a later day. And to switch from night shift, you have to work 18 hours with no compensation.

I don't have a problem with the salary but doing that kind of work for 14 hours needs superhero powers not someone who was used to mandazi for lunch and chapo ndengu in UoN. How can a company take 18/24 hours of your time, means you have 6 hours personal time and you haven't even slept. and to think of the money they're making, it's just inhumane. I don't even know that's legal.

Anyway, I clocked out at 7.08 am. I was feeling sick so on my way I was checking the job description and I realized they said they required someone with "physical stamina and strength", which clearly I wasn't. I was never going back to that place.

I slept the whole way kwa matatu, I actually felt I needed an ambulance tbh. I arrived at home around 9am. I took breakfast and slept for two days😭😭😭 Today 5 days later, I am still recovering.
I wonder how many people in Industrial Area work under these conditions and probably worse. I am lucky I don't have a family so I can survive till the next opportunity comes up. That's high-key modern day slavery if you ask me.

Their bargaining power is that so many people don't have jobs so when you go to the interview they will utilise that to get you signing up to really bad terms cause you don't have another option. I am sure they have already replaced me with someone else and the cycle continues.

I feel for every young Kenyan man, it's crazy out here. For everyone looking for a job or in a bad one, sending some love ❤️ Hang in there, we hope for better days.

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